Lately I have heard the common story of the two best friends, from which one developed a crush on the other that I decided to post my pathetic experiences with these. Well basically as I see there are 3 main types of crushes. One is the one we have for a stranger mysterious person, which we occasionally have the opportunity to talk or even see. This is a terrible one, cause after a while you realize the evident. That it is all a fantasy and the other person has no interest in even knowing u at all. Of course this “while” may vary from a day to weeks or even years. Depending in the capacity of the person to simply: stop being STUPID.
Then comes the second type of crush. The one at the school. This one is tricky cause it not only ruins your emotional equilibrium but it diminishes your brain capacity to zero during class time. Plus, once you suffer the terrible revelation of Mr. Realism you have had a really big down of grades, academic life and social behavior. The school that had been just can tolerate so far, now makes u want to never leave your room again.
And the third and last one is one, which I think is practically inevitable. The one we all suffer once in a while. Not the most damaging one, but still the most abusive one. This is because it comes when u less expect it. You are fine, ok, with this person by maintaining a friendship; you are not looking for any different type of involvement with the individual. But yet, it comes. And when it comes. I hope u have at least one type of drug next to u, cause if not. Well you are simply FUCKED-UP. Each time you see this friend, she or he will see u as before and u will not be thinking in the movie u are watching, the food u are eating, or the books u are reading, but in her, her and her only. And the worst is that this rarely has the reciprocate feeling. At most u can have the same feeling, but at different times. Another important feature of these last one is, that it is actually not non-sense or a fantasy. It is not like the other 2 crushes. This one has actually the possibility of becoming real.
And just as I recently told Ale and Samuel –sorry to mention it again though Liana-, we all know that one of the golden rules of relations between two best friends, one being a man, the other a girl (Considering none is lesbian or bisexual, which opens a whole new gamma of possible results). Is that within a period of 2 years approximately 96 weekends, at least one of them is infected with the crush disease. I have a list of a number of individuals, which they have told me have passed through this situation. Just in case you disagree with the idea. Some of them are: Me, Chicao, Vitor, Rafa, Michelle, Paul, Ale, Roberto, Andres, Natalia, Tato, Samuel, Malú, Estevan, Sasso?, etc. (I have whole list of people in case u are interested) .
So be aware. This crush disease is highly contagious, and there is no way to prevent this unless u change your sexuality. But still after that there is always the chance of a straight, which becomes gay, or a gay that becomes straight or that any of them become bisexual.
FINALLY, I WANT TO ADD THAT ONCE U SUFFERED A CRISH, IT TAKES AN EXTREMELY SAMLL EVENT OR THING TO TRIGGER THE WHOLE THING AGAIN, GETTING U INTO A NEW ENDLESS ROLLERCOASTER.